Showing posts with label daily life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label daily life. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Another Day in Paradise //

8:11:00 PM
Hello loves! For those of you who follow me on any form of social media, you've probably heard about/seen many photos of my journey. I am currently relaxing in the home of my maternal grandparents, which happens to be a quaint little house in the small town of Dexter, Maine. Despite it's small size, this town has so many hidden gems and beauties that can make for big adventures. Even though I still have a couple of days left here before returning home, a lot of wonderful things have occured that I feel I should share with you on this media form. //

A couple days ago, I went on a little hike in an area called Moxie Falls, which was about a two hour drive, with pit stops. We first stopped at a cute little bakery, where I got an apple popover and vanilla coffee for breakfast (I chose apple because, you know, autumn). Our second pit stop was to Subway, where we got sandwhiches and sodas and stuff to eat for lunch later. We put them in the cooler, and continued our journey to the falls. We arrived around 11, and headed onto the trail. My sister and I spent most of our time taking photos, and trying to notice the little details of the natural scene around us. Abby (who is absolutely amazing at photography),!took some wonderful shots of bugs, spiderwebs, and the centers of flowers. I, on the other hand, am an amateur photographer, but still ended up with some pretty cool photos. 







My favorite part of Moxie Falls, and perhaps the most beautiful part, is the waterfall. I could've sat there, listening to the water rush downstream, hitting against the rocks as it fell and mindlessly lapping at itself, for hours (I couldn't though, because 9 year old cousin and your near-80 grammie, ya know).   //


Nature is beautiful, like, really really fucking amazing, so, we didn't want to return home immediately, so we stopped at a "scenic location" so Abby and I could take some portraits of one another in feilds of flowers, and eat our lunch. The perfect ending to a perfect day. //



Over the course of the next few days, we did some more local activities. We first saw a local band performing in the park. It wasn't anything much, but just a fun little activity to pass the time. 

A cute lil boutique recently opened in downtown Dexter, so we went there and I bought some cute items. (Maybe I'll do a Maine Haul video... comment on this post if you want me to!) We basically just did a lot of shopping, and that's cool. //

Today is a lot less jam-packed; we've kinda just sat around all morning (though we may go on a "party boat" later. Basically, there are so many wonderful things you can fill your life with, and so many opportunities and adventures to seize. I encourage you to fill your life with what makes you happy, because you'll lead an existence that's a whole hell of a lot more meaningful. 
      "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." 

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Yoga & Yogurt//

10:07:00 PM
peace. calm. serenity. relaxation. self-love. a sense of "oneness." playing it by ear. listening to yourself. seeing where the day takes you. turning a day of no motivation and a lack of inspiration into a night of focus and hard work. //

This is, in simple words and phrases, how I would describe this Wednesday. First and foremost, I set my alarm for 6, but accidentally overslept til noon (oops). I then decided to make my bed, eat lunch, and get a coffee to kick start ny day. I was attempting to motivate myself to complete more of the history assignment looming over my head before school starts up again. //

Though my spirit was high and my body was ready, my mind had a very different idea of how the day would unfold. My wandering head made it incredibly difficult to just sit down and read, despite the facr that I knew I needed to. Instead, I spent the afternoon working on some sewing & designing projects. 
Which, it turns out, 
was not a bad thing. 

I ended up getting a lot of work done, even though it was not in the area I had intended it to be. If I hadn't been listening to my mind today and cultivating the creative energies, I could have missed out on some pretty great moments of inspiration. I would have been forcing myself to do something when I knew and felt as though I should be taking adva tage of this sudden creative inspiration. I'm so so beyond glad I did this for myself. 

Much to my happiness, listening to my body, mind, and spirit during the day led to more beautiful things in the evening. I went to a yoga session for the first time in literally over 6 months. I can't remember the last time I felt so still, and content with myself and my current life. The energy from the yogic meditation carries into the rest of my day, and even into tomorrow when I wake up. I feel at peace with myself, the Earth, and God. I feel okay for once. 

And I guess thats my reason for writing this. I want to let you know that it's okay to have those "unmotivated," "sleep-in-til-noon" types of days. It's important to listen to all 3 elements of yourself (body, mind, and spirit) everyday, and to do what feels right to you. As I sit here in my bath of lush bathbombs and lavender candles, I wish you all the utmost love and positivity, wherever you may be. Life can be beautiful once you learn to take the time to focus on your lovely self. //

Namasté. xx






PS sorry for the low-quality photos-- they're all from my phone 💗

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Carpe Diem, Bitch //

9:47:00 PM
Wowie wow wow. Where do I even begin? I rolled out of bed this morning around noon (which was a much needed moment of self-love), and as soon as I woke up, I immediately began getting ready for what (little did I know) was going to be one of the most beautiful days I've ever experienced. //

Last night, my dad showed me this cool place he had found online, at which point we decided we should visit as soon as possible (just so you know, ASAP means the next day for us). So, I woke up this afternoon knowing that just as soon as I was done getting ready, we'd head out for Restoration Resources. Even though we didn't buy anything today, everything there is so unique and would be quite the addition to any home, so we do plan on going back. Plus, you can rent props from there, AND they have areas that you can rent for photography projects (Fall 2015 collection shoot? I think yes). I brought my camera and got some great shots there, and also on the ride home, so it was a successful trip. My sister then suggested we go to Blue Hills to see if we can spot any deer and/or take photographs of the Boston skyline. We decided it'd be best if we waited til dusk to do that, so we returned home for a bit. //

Next came the "low point" of my day (which truth be told wasn't even low at all). I sat in my room for a while, scrolling through the "astrology" tag on tumblr. I then realized that I want to be a productive human being, and that scrolling through such tags did not really fit the category of "productive." So, I googled a list of things to do when you're bored, and saw "CLEAN, it'll make you feel good." I didn't think that cleaning would make me feel good, but my room was a mess so I decided to do it anyway. I was pleasantly surprised at how energized and refreshed the cleaned room made me feel. My room is so pretty right now ahhhh! *insert heart eyes emoji*
While all this was happening, my dad was making us dinner (spaghetti w/ marinara sauce and garlic bread). I went down and ate, and then we all got ready to head out. //

Unfortunately, we didn't see any deer tonight, but the scenery and fresh air was enough to satisfy me. There's something about being in the stillness of nature that I have always loved, and getting to feel that today was a wonderful treat for my soul. We sat on this little brick wall for about a half hour, and then realized that we were all hungry af. We returned home, but only to go to the Clam Box, which is a little seafood place on the shore near where we live. We just got little appetizer things, like fries and mozzarella sticks.
I thought that the night was going to be over here, but on our way home, my dad asked "Do you guys want to go home or just take a drive?" Obviously, my sister and I wanted to take a ride around, so we just drove. There was no destination in mind. We cranked up the radio (which was playing classical piano pieces-- no hate plz it's very relaxing). I had no idea where we were, but there was a beach, and the sunset looked gorgeous over the water. So we got out, and my sister and I took photos of each other and the beach. We waded in the water. The water was warm. The waves were slow. You could feel the salt in the air. I loved the feeling of the sand between my toes. Everything was so simple. Everything felt so right. //

Finally, we realized it was almost 9:00, so we decided it'd be best to get home soon. We loaded ourselves into the car, and got less than a mile when my dad and I decided now would be a great time for coffee. We pulled over to the nearest Dunkin' Donuts (because Boston, ya know?) I got a small hot french vanilla coffee with skim milk, because it was getting kind of chilly outside, which most people would be upset about. But I love the cold. I like it when I get to wear sweaters and cute fuzzy socks. The crisp, cool air reminded me that fall is on it's way, putting a smile on my face. Though the ride home was silent between us all, I could feel the happiness of my family filling our entire car.

I am currently listening to the Dirty Dancing soundtrack on my record player, and reminiscing on the wonderful day I had, and all of the positive vibes that go along with it. I'm really happy right now. I seized the day, and made it something wonderful for myself. Carpe diem, bitch. //

pisces // dream house includes columns & potted plants
pisces // addicted to fairy lights & chocolate



























Saturday, June 13, 2015

A Day in Boston Look //

7:34:00 PM
Today, I was able to go into the city with my family (following last night when I went in with some friends to get records), and I felt really proud of my appearance today. So naturally, I decided to post about my day. I love visiting the North End specifically, because it feels like you're walking down the streets of Italy. The North End is filled with very narrow, cobblestone paths. Bikes are parked all along the sidewalk, and the smell of Italian-style pastas and pizzas fill the air. All of the apartments are brick, and have long fire escapes, which residents decorate with plants and flowers. Colors of brown and baby blue are dotted throughout the streets. //
Then, other parts of Boston have tall, modern skyscrapers. Expensive cars line the streets, taxis are available on every corner, and you can find your everyday chain restaurants like Starbucks and Chipotle (and of course Dunkin' Donuts because after all, this is Boston). It's like the colliding of two different worlds, and I love it. I love it so so much. //
In terms of my outfit, I went for a simple look, mostly because it's summer and really really hot. I wore a basic white tank, a bralette, denim shorts and sandals. SUMMER IS HERE YAY //




WHERE TO SHOP THIS LOOK:
Coachella Tank- Rue 21 (2 for $10)
Polka Dot Bralette- Forever 21 ($17)
Shorts- I stole them from my sister
Sandals- Payless
Choker- Brandy Melville ($5)
Crossbody Bag- Marshall's (Nine West brand)
Rings- Brandy Melville ($3 each)


           

The North End




Sunday, May 31, 2015

Busy Busy Bee //

2:21:00 PM
*insert That's so Raven vocal riff* Yup, that's me.
It's Sunday after what was quite possibly the longst week of my life. I am completely worn out and exhausted. It seems as though I can go months without having anything to do, then all of a sudden all activities are scheduled in a 6-day time period. 
•Last Sunday, my family and I were in Maine, and I was so relaxed and happy to be spending time with those I love and remembering those we've lost. 
•On Monday, we travelled home from Maine in a 4-hour long car ride. I did a lot of schoolwork and such, but I was able to ho to bed at a decent hour.
•Tuesday, I had a fashion show at the State House, which meant missing all my classes for the day. Following my return, I had rehearsal for Once Upon a Mattress til about 6 pm. I completed some work, and finished a project, causing me to be in bed at 11 pm. 
•Wednesday, I had to sing at a community breakfast, making me miss my study period (meaning i had to do all work the prior night, and miss my chior class to makeup a history test) I had lots of makeup work,seeing  as I had missed classes on Tuesday. I had double the tests, double the homework, and double the amount of things to rehearse for the other show I'm in, Black Comedy. Basically, I was in bed at 1 am. (Plus I was already exhausted from the day before, so this was just bad) 
•Then Thursday came, and it was hard to even keep my eyeballs open. I thought about taking a day off, but I realized that with the amount of things I have going on, I can't afford to just miss days. I had  classes all day, except period 10, in which I had to leave biology early to perform Once Upon a Mattress. Then I had to rehearse Black Comedy til about 7:15. Immediately after, I drove over to my sister's school to see her choir concert. She wanted milkshakes after, so her and I (being a good sister) went to Friendly's. I got home at about 8 pm, and proceeded to do homework til about 11:45 pm. (also, all day Thursday I thought it was Friday) 
•Finally, Friday came. It was actually quite relaxing, because after school, I only had a 30 minute rehearsal (so that seniors could get to prom), and then ate Chipotle, and then went to my pal's house for her Sweet 16. Of course it was fun, but parties=getting home at 1 am. So naturally, I was exhausted when ai had to wake up at 8 am to work on...
•...Saturday. I woke up, and did stage makeup in the morning for my matineé show. I then babysat from 10-12:15 (with said makeup on), and immediately after, I performed Once Upon A Mattress, came home and began homeworking (because for some reason, I had quite a bit this weekend.) I stayed up til 11 by my own accord (wicked bad idea-- but obviously I had to watch Law & Order: SVU for like 3 hours.) 
•Now it's Sunday, and I went out for breakfast early, then went to church, then went out flower/herb shopping, then took my cat for a walk outside, and am now here blogging. I know there's work to be done later, but I need a break to sit back and relax, look at all the new flowers & herbs, and listen to some Zeppelin on le record player. This week has been long, but I feel productive. It's worth it. Sometimes you need to feel the pain to also feelthe gain, ya know? 
Anywho, thanks for listening to this rant, and if there's one thing to learn from this, kewp your head up and always focus on the positives. If you don't have to struggle, it's not even worth it. Life isn't going to be delivered to you on a silver platter, but it's too short to focus on the bad little things. Just focus on the beauty in situations. xoxo

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